The Style Girlfriend Guide to: Holiday Shopping for Her

I’ve saved this column for the week before Christmas because, let’s be honest, some of you guys are just starting your shopping. Amirite? Don’t worry, me too.

Below, what to buy for all the ladies on your list:

The girl you just started seeing

It’s early, so you agreed not to exchange presents. She is LYING. She got you something and expects you to do the same. If you’re even thinking about going Facebook status-official with this person, buy her a gift, like these adorable (but non-committal) puppet mittens.

“Snow Day” animal convertible gloves ($24)

Your girlfriend that’s expecting a small, ring-shaped box…but isn’t getting one

NOT jewelry. If you aren’t planning to pop the question, don’t tease the poor girl with earrings. Get her a bike or a coat or a kayak – anything that doesn’t say “I might be housing a diamond.” These Frye boots will help her walk off the disappointment.

Frye tall riding boot ($348)

Your Harried Mom

For the mom who takes care of everyone but herself. Help her carry the world on her shoulders a little more stylishly with a well-made leather bag in a color that pops.

Coach “Kristin” leather hobo purse ($298)

Your New Mother-in-Law

If you’re still calling her by her last name, go for a gift that at least suggests warmth. Get one step closer to “Mom” with an elegant soy candle from Archipelago. They burn clean, smell amazing and won’t break your budget.

Archipelago Candle in Lilac ($30)

Your Younger, Impressionable Sister

As a big brother, you have a responsibility to guide your female siblings down a stylish (read: non-slutty) path. This tome, by Men’s Vogue blogger Amanda Brooks, will help keep sis in line with helpful tips and sartorial tricks.

I Love Your Style, by Amanda Brooks ($14)

Your Politically-Minded Neighbor

For the woman who wants to do good, and smell good doing it. Kiehl’s and artist Jeff Koons collaborated on a line of products to raise money for The Koons Family Institute, which fights child trafficking, child pornography and child abduction.

Jeff Koons Limited Edition Creme de Corps box set ($27)

Your Female Boss

Barring any very good reasons for *not* doing so, a bottle of Veuve is always appropriate for a boss – male or female. Help her celebrate the coming new year in style with this chic bottle of bubbly. The best part? This gift looks best unwrapped, with just a bow (and a nice card, of course) topping it.

Veuve Cliquot Brut ($45)