How to Improve Your Posture and Boost Your Confidence

How to Improve Your Posture and Boost Your Confidence

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better posture for more confidence

By Megan Collins | Last Updated: Oct 18 2023 | 6 min read

What if I told you that you could breathe better, feel stronger, be more productive, and look better in your clothes by making one small change?

If it sounds like I’m about announce a special limited time offer when you call 1-800-STYLEGF, don’t worry. These are all benefits of good posture. Which is free!

The benefits of good posture

Proper posture decreases the damage that everyday movement and stressors have on your body. Neck pain, headaches, and scoliosis have all been attributed to inefficiently supporting one’s frame.

Also? You look way better in your clothes when you’re standing up straight. And when you look good in your clothes? You feel good.

Meaning: better posture leads to a boost in confidence.

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We’ve heard it from our parents, high school coaches, and maybe even a few of us from doctors after throwing out our back. Posture, the way one carries his or her body, matters.

Like, a lot.

Pauses to: sit upright/relax shoulders/straighten neck/put more than six inches between me and my computer screen….

Your head and spine are meant to be in complete alignment , like there’s an invisible string reaching up to the ceiling from the top of your dome. That’s why your posture, the foundation for every move you make, matters so damn much!

So, today’s the day to start improving your posture, guys.

Breaking down how good posture increases your confidence

Improving your posture is an extension of leveling-up your life each day. And you can quite literally up your elevation. Beyond avoiding any Quasimodo comparisons, a proper upright frame effectively lengthens and slims your silhouette.

That’s right, looking taller and beating a beer belly is as easy as “head up, shoulders back, and mind your spine”.

Think of those wardrobe essentials you’ve invested in and tweaked at the tailor. You’ll notice that the person tucking and pinning your new suit jacket ensures that you’re standing straight before making any measurements.

While you may oblige to avoid getting poked by a pin, the real purpose is to tailor your clothes at the point where they look the best: on a streamlined upright frame.

The quickest way to remember why clothes look better on someone with good posture? Imagine a caveman. Then imagine Superman. Who looks better?

Yeah, Superman for sure. And that dude’s walking around (okay, flying around) in bright blue tights and red booties!

There’s health benefits of good posture, too

What’s more, improved posture does far more than mitigate possible pain. Keeping your chest upright allows more oxygen to flow through your body, which increases the ability to – you guessed it – breathe.

As for how improved posture can be impactful in the immediate timeframe? Productivity and power.

Posture has always been a factor in perceived power – from Superman’s signature pose to primates’ stand-offs in nature.

According to Amy Cuddy’s famed study on power posing, adopting a strong, upright body position increases testosterone and decreases that pesky stress hormone. This combination not only looks more powerful, it helps you feel more confident and comfortable in any situation.

In a study on cognition and emotion, men perform better while at an upright position as a result of improved concentration and confidence gained from assuming that power pose we talked about. Your back may thank you for not slouching at work, but your boss will be just as grateful – and impressed too.

How to improve your posture

In the same way bad habits take time to develop, good habits take time to sink in. But hey, we’ve got to start somewhere.

While a lot of posture issues can be remedied by consistently reminding yourself to sit or stand at a proper position, there are ways to redesign your environment to set up for success: 

  • Ensure your desk or computer screen is at a height that doesn’t cause you to hunch over to look down or strain your neck to look up.
  • Use headphones when talking on the phone instead of craning your neck to go hands-free.
  • Invest in an ergonomic chair and keyboard to align your back and limbs while working.
  • Keep your workspace close enough to allow your elbows to fall close to your torso when writing or typing – this will keep your shoulders back and relaxed.
  • Don’t stay stationary! Even the most perfect posture will be nullified by non-movement. Take breaks often to stand, stretch, and step about.

Is your situation all set? That’s what we like to hear.

You may remember from our Workout 101: Yoga that posture is a guiding tenet of the entire practice. In addition to bringing awareness to the body overall, certain yoga poses will also strengthen your core to support your spine, strengthen your back, open your chest, relax your shoulders, and lengthen your frame. Practice these for a few minutes each day and the rewards will speak for themselves.

Improve your posture with easy-to-do exercise poses:


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Pyramid Pose

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The Cobra

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The Bridge

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gifs by: Joel Castillo of | shot at Nike+ 45 Grand training studio in NYC

Time for a (self) check-up

One of the most effective ways to remind yourself to do a posture check is to set an intention. Are you improving your foundation to fix a back problem? Do you want to feel more confident at work? Are you looking to increase circulation and productivity? Take a conscious approach to why posture matters to you, and reminders will become second nature.

Quick, do a posture assessment right now:

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Now that you’re feeling (and looking) good, set a reminder on your phone to check your posture and stretch at multiple increments throughout the day. Your back – and confidence – will thank you.


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